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It can be stressful and unnerving when your child is referred to a specialist. All kids see their pediatricians (or primary care doctor) often, especially in those first years; it is the norm and expectation for your child to see their pediatrician. We are comfortable visiting and for the most part know what to expect.
However, while a lot of kids visit a specialist, it is not a normal part of development for children. We all want our kids to be healthy and happy and a specialty visit can be a signal that they are not. You are entering a whole new territory with different criteria and protocol than you experience at the pediatrician’s office.
Here’s what you need to know when your child is referred to a specialist and how to prepare for the appointment.
- It may takes weeks or months before you are actually able to see the specialist.
- There will be little to no flexibility in the appointment date and time.
- You may be required to complete paperwork and gather medical records prior the appointment. You will often be asked to supply pertinent information such as medications, birth history, developmental history, surgeries, produces, tests, and names of other physicians.
- Depending on what specialty your child needs and where you live, you many need to travel a distance to see this specialist.
- Be prepared to wait. Bring something for your child to do and snack on. Many pediatric offices are kid friendly and have toys/books in the waiting area, but not all do. You may be stuck in the exam room for a long period of time as well.
- If this is your first appointment or you know you will be getting a lot of information take someone else with you. It will be very helpful to have that second set a of ears. These appointments can also be emotional, draining, and stressful. It is good to have a support person.
- Have your questions written down, so you are prepared to ask. More questions will likely arise during the appointment, but this gives you a starting point and assures you don’t forget anything.
- Take a pen and paper if you are old fashioned like me or your electronic note-taking device and be prepared to take notes.
- If you have other kids leave them with a family member or baby-sitter if available. This will not only limit your distractions but these appointments can be long and draining.
This list is not meant to scare you, but rather help you be prepared. Your child is being referred to a specialist, because you and your child’s pediatrician have determined that a specialist is the next step in your child’s medical care. Most likely you will receive answers to the questions you have probably had for weeks or months. In many cases, your child will receive the treatment and care they need to feel better.
Please feel free to comment with your tips on preparing for a specialty appointment or questions you may have.
